The Importance Of Self Growth

Let's make this clear from the get go, I am not talking about height here (I literally just got out of a car seat and my boss thinks I just did my A levels big yikes) I am talking about the comprehension of who you are mentally. The importance of understanding self growth is that I am not the person I was five minutes ago or years into the past at that. We are all constantly adapting, learning and evolving in our surroundings which impacts the notion of self growth. To believe there is no room for improvement to your own wellbeing is a horrific facade and boo I am sorry to say, but you are lying to yourself. 

Self growth could literally be the smallest of situations for example, blocked your ex? Self growth! Going to bed on time? Self growth! Adapting to new surroundings that may have given you anxiety in the past? Self growth! Realising you don’t need to validate anyone but yourself? Self growth! Repeat after me… SELF GROWTH! We really love to see it.

The only reason why you may feel you have not had self growth in the past is because self growth does not materialise from comfort, it feeds off your sour fears. You have to step out of your bubble and accept the gruesome reality of life to recognise the true meaning of self growth. It takes time to allow your energy to embellish vulnerability but the results are sensational when you do. 

I have encountered a mysterious situation that has enhanced its way out of the pandemic causing me to come to terms with my own personal journey with self growth. I only realised when I was staring into my past trauma’s soul how much a few years can change your mindset drastically. I did not believe for a minute that I would ever speak to this person in my life again and yet, here they are. I truly believe this person has surged conspicuously to try and test me and they absolutely have. My trust issues in men spanned from one house and a few days ago I had the opportunity to return five years later. As I reached for the door handle, my heart was racing and my hands were shaking but then I thought NO! Self growth. Yes, this house will forever be overshadowed by pain, my need for reassurance buckled forever by this one incident and the fact the sixteen year old me went through horrendous heartbreak and betrayal but i’m twenty one, older, wiser and someone sixteen year old me would want to be. THAT is self growth, so I unlatched the door and stepped in. 

Self growth is profoundly intense, empowering the correct energy to consume your whole soul and not letting toxic elements seep into yourself like poison is of importance for the balance of self growth to remain positive. It is vastly comprehending in yourself what or who you believe is vivaciously valuable towards the notion of growth. However until then, Work on yourself, discover self growth, oh and let's keep talking about it.